Boundless, a ministry of Focus on the Family, created this FREE guide after the success of ‘A Guy’s Guide to Marrying Well‘.  There are 4 sections:

  • INTENTIONALITY “God has given women a position of influence, encouragement, and counsel.”
  • PURITY “Whatever your sexual history, the goal remains: Live from today forward like you’re planning to marry.”
  • COMMUNITY “Getting input from someone who’s further down the road is invaluable.”
  • CHRISTIAN COMPATIBILITY “We are encouraged to use wisdom, not destiny, as our guide when choosing a partner.”

Many well known authors have worked on the guide including Joshua Harris (I kissed dating goodbye) and Candice Watters (Get married: what women can do to make it happen).  It is packed full of succinct wisdom and covers a huge range of issues including: “The real non-negotiables”, “What good guys are looking for”, “The danger of finding the one” and “When he’s not asking”.  I especially liked the section on community as when we are part of a close Christian community we are so much better equipped to handle ourselves well when being pursued and make wise choices.  I think any woman could glean some useful, Biblical relationship wisdom from this guide! Link to the free e-book