Category: Guarding your heart

Lust: Not Just a Male Battle

There is a rumour going round that women don’t watch online sex. There’s a school of thought that says that our fantasies are romantic rather than explicit. Some argue that we don’t think as visually as men, so pornography is rarely appealing. A few believe that we are, by nature, more pure and innocent. (more…)

10 Reasons Modesty Angers Women

I wrote an article last week on modesty. It has been my most popular article to date. However it’s also provoked a storm of very angry reactions from a few women. In short, the article shared a list, written by men, of 10 ways women dress that nearly all men seem to struggle with and find indecent. (more…)

Courtship’s Potential Pitfalls

As a senior in High school, I had never even heard of such a thing as Christian Courtship. I went out with a guy if I thought he was cute, funny and if he liked me. I didn’t see anything wrong with enjoying the admiration and flirtation of a different guy every few months. (more…)

Chemistry, Intimacy & Attachment (Are they important?)

How important do you think chemistry is when it comes to choosing a marriage partner?  What about emotional intimacy?  Do we need to get deeply attached to a person before we can know if we should marry them?  How can we know, before getting engaged, if we’re capable of experiencing great emotional intimacy in marriage (more…)

7 Reasons to guard your heart

We are called to guard our hearts…”Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life” (Proverbs 4:23)…but often that is easier said than done. Here are 7 reasons why we should guard our hearts while being pursued by a man.  Hopefully they will remain a reminder to us if we are tempted to let our hearts go. (more…)